live the moment couple example"s

Live the moment ….

Start with looking or playing with children best example.they don’t care about nothing more then living the moment. first they are power rangers 10min later you see them screaming they are supermen they live as they mood change. If some one says some thing bad they will cry or if they hurt them self they will cry also but after  5-6minutes they back in the play ground running a round enjoying life. He has no carries about yesterday no worries to future just living the moment some times we have to live the moment also to be happy.

My dog   yokshire angelow my babygirl watching her while she think she is a lion trying to attack germen shapper or golden. Going on the grass trying to catch lizards. When iam sad he comes next to me and just watchs me when my mood change to happy he is happy ready to play.i know he dont think about what food i gave him in the morning or i will give in night doesnt care or think about it . dogs are live the moment so try to be like them.

How can we get a wonderful life ?

Iam gonna mix it up jump from one to one lets start:

Saving is great, but to make the most of your money you need to put it to work. Good investments can be the difference between retiring it can take your ritirment age to 40s or 50s. What do i mean from this is if a person starts investing in his 20s just the between 15 % and 20% their income the inrerst they earn will be equal to their current salary when they reah there 40s so they can drop out retire without a drop income. It will  be devoting more attention to wonderfull life. Having more time to travel than your friends while u  are in the same age you will have more income wichleads to more money that you can spend so it will take you couple step from your friends.

The most importand point is to educate your self we need to continuos growth to be happy. The best way goes from education well don’t take me wrong iam not saying study every day finish couple college etc iam not talking nothing about that. Self education can be any thing that takes you out of your zone. The most important part is to keep a clean and open mind. That’s is ready to search and enjoy while you doing…also it will take to more important and interesting person…

Do any thing you want starting from a job do what makes you happy meaning wise even if your life isn’t great excellent after a surten time it will be better not at the point but if you do the job you love you will come to best place at your work.we cant control everthing in our lifes maybe but choosing our work is in our hands every day you will wake up to do something you like which makes you happy…

Stay in shape work out you only get one body once its been ruined there is much you can do.stay a way from unhealthy food do exercise maybe it will be so hard but don’t give up you will see the advantages in your olders lifes.

Come to your self forget about pass get to the moment look at around you what you doing ? who is around you ? what have you done ? maybe we can not change our pass what happens is happens nothing to about it so what pick your self together and look to the future what can you do ? how is my friends are effecting me ? and make a plane to the future and start sticking up to the plan.

Listen to music you love dance if you like STOP woriying about what people will think. Specially listen music in car it will take your temputure down while in traffic. ;isten to music while taking a bath before you sleep it will come you down.

Spend more time with the people who loves you … you will see what iam trying to say

if you have time you should listen to link iam posting i find it usefull for my self and i thought
it will catch your attention aslooo


its about feellings
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ueint8f8WPw


this one is more longer but its a training course it will help about life Marshall ROSENBERG is amazing thank you Giuseppe TOTINO for your advice

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfaKIhtR3ro

İ think i lead a positive life but not exactly. İ mean a positive life is necessarry for everybody but there are some barriers which prevent you from living positively. Health, family, peace, a good job, money , friendship are important things to me however you can't have all of them going on well at the same time. For example, some time you can have problems with your family , in another time you can be in trouble with monatery matters.So all these can lead you to have not a positive but a problematic life.Even if i am rich and healty in body , i have some psycholofical problems that prevent from leading me a pure positive life.Losing somebody who is quite important to me influenced me so deeply that i couldnt handle it by myself but with pills. May be it would not be a big matter to some other people but as to me it's very depressing. İ think everybody has some problems which are prominent for their life. Everyone needs to have a positive life but in order to have it , they need to fullfil all biological, pyschological, social needs in a certain amount. But if there is no fullfillment in these needs , we should create a positive thought that is to say we should search good in bad. İt is not a very easy thing to do however if your life hit the bottom then you should know how to pull it to the top. And all this ends up in your brain.if you cant do it, nobody else will do it for you. Your own brain is the only alternative for this massive change. Therefore believing to have a positive life most probably is the starting point of having a real positive life.But of course there are some alternatives which can turn your negative life into a positive one.,some small changes in life can even help you have progress in this process. For example,you can start with concantrating on what you want and ignore what you dont want. İf you want to be a teacher, be a teacher not a lawyer. Namely, a person cant find happiness in what he doesnt want to be. So one should live as to her/ his own interests, not to the others'. You should also keep your mind and body active in order to reach a positive life.if you dont feel comfortable with your own look, you wil lose self respect and confidence which will lead you to think in a negative way. Or when you are mentally busy with something that disturbs you, there is no way for you to have a positive life. These situations which i mentioned above can be barriers for people and for me to live in a positive way. Hence we should keep in mind that we have only one life and there is not another chance for us. Not big changes but only the small ones can even prese t us a better life and terminate the barriers which convict us to live a life that we dont want. 

The no behind the yes may seem very prevalent for life of all people because eveybody has loads of questions in their minds such as: why cant i have a good relationship withothers, why cant i show my true feelings to my beloved, why cant i contradict other people's thoughts, why do i keep having the same negative feeling but cant turn them into positive ones?? So on ...these questions cannot be answered truly since people are afraid of giving up their habituals or they are afraid what they will find beneath them. May be they are scared they they will have new responsibilities . Behind every no , there is this terror of giving up what we know and behind every yes, there is the occurance of the unknown. İ mean what if i say yes to the person who proposes to marry me. And here the huge unknown is on the way because you dont know how much your life is going to change and how it will keep on with that person. What changes await you and what kind of troubles are on the way??this doubt and lack of trust leads you to say no to the prososal however there is of course a great wish to say yes to the beloved whom you adore ..Changes always scare people and having too much unknown keep you saying no to so many things which you would actually say yes if you have some courage. Another example is that people People always follow the track they know and will not put themselves in danger and the ones who do it know they are in the mid of a big shadow.at the end of the shadow they either find happiness or disappointment but one cant know without trying in other words they cant know without saying yes. So a little courage will push t hem to the end of the shadow.therefore instead of no , it is worth trying to accept certain things or else one has to live with those questions above in their minds till the end of their life.by saying no, people just try to hide behind their own excuses , and they dont know how they will repent for why they dont say yes after a certain time. The word '' yes'' is the challenge itself to the life.people would accept that saying yes would be against their fundemantel principles.but they cannot know how great this life and this world can be if they say yes to almost all offers.sometimes, by saying yes, you can overcome your fears and can fly on a plane or sometimes by saying yes, you can start living your ideal life.people can be stuck between their ideals and principles. They cannot decide which one to choose however instead of their ideals , they would rather choose to follow their principles. That' s why they say no but behind that word , there is always a yes because that '' yes'' takes them to their own idesls.

The no behind the yes   may seem very prevalent for life of all people because eveybody has loads of questions in their minds such as: why cant i have a good relationship withothers, why cant i show my true feelings to my beloved, why cant i contradict other people's thoughts, why do i keep having the same negative feeling but cant turn them into positive ones?? So on ...these questions cannot be answered truly since people are afraid of giving up their habituals or they are afraid what they will find beneath them. May be they are scared they they will have new responsibilities . Behind every no , there is this terror of giving up what we know and behind every yes, there is the occurance of the unknown. İ mean what if i say yes to the person who proposes to marry me. And here the huge unknown is on the way because you dont know how much your life is going to change and how it will keep on with that person. What changes await you and what kind of troubles are on the way??this doubt and lack of trust leads you to say no to the prososal however there is of course a great wish to say yes to the beloved whom you adore .Changes always scare people and having too much unknown keep you saying no to so many things which you would actually say yes if you have some courage. People always follow the trac  they know and will not put themselves in danger and the ones who do it know they are in the mid of a big shadow.at the end of the shadow they either find happiness or disappointment but one cant know without trying  in other words they cant know without saying yes. So a little courage will push t hem to the end of the shadow.therefore instead of no , it is worth trying to accept certain things or else one has to live with those questions above in their minds till the end of their life.

İ think i lead a positive life but not exactly. İ mean a positive life is necessarry for everybody but there are some barriers which prevent you from living positively. Health, family, peace, a good job, money , friendship are important things to me however you can't have all of them going on well at the same time. For example, some time you can have problems with your family , in another time you can be in trouble with monatery matters.So all these can lead you to have not a positive but a problematic life.Even if i am rich and healty in body , i have some psycholofical problems that prevent from leading me a pure positive life.Losing somebody who is quite important to me influenced me so deeply that i couldnt handle it by myself but with pills. May be it would not be  a big matter to some other people but as to me it's very depressing. İ think everybody has some problems which are prominent for their life. Everyone needs to have a positive life but in order to have it , they need to fullfil all biological, pyschological, social needs in a certain amount. But if there is no fullfillment in these needs , we should create a positive thought that is to say we should search good in bad. İt is not a very easy thing to do however if your life hit the bottom then you should know how to pull it to the top. And all this ends up in your brain.if you cant do it, nobody else will do it for you. Your own brain is the only alternative for this massive change. Therefore believing to have a positive life most probably is  the starting point of having a real positive life.