The no behind the yes   may seem very prevalent for life of all people because eveybody has loads of questions in their minds such as: why cant i have a good relationship withothers, why cant i show my true feelings to my beloved, why cant i contradict other people's thoughts, why do i keep having the same negative feeling but cant turn them into positive ones?? So on ...these questions cannot be answered truly since people are afraid of giving up their habituals or they are afraid what they will find beneath them. May be they are scared they they will have new responsibilities . Behind every no , there is this terror of giving up what we know and behind every yes, there is the occurance of the unknown. İ mean what if i say yes to the person who proposes to marry me. And here the huge unknown is on the way because you dont know how much your life is going to change and how it will keep on with that person. What changes await you and what kind of troubles are on the way??this doubt and lack of trust leads you to say no to the prososal however there is of course a great wish to say yes to the beloved whom you adore .Changes always scare people and having too much unknown keep you saying no to so many things which you would actually say yes if you have some courage. People always follow the trac  they know and will not put themselves in danger and the ones who do it know they are in the mid of a big shadow.at the end of the shadow they either find happiness or disappointment but one cant know without trying  in other words they cant know without saying yes. So a little courage will push t hem to the end of the shadow.therefore instead of no , it is worth trying to accept certain things or else one has to live with those questions above in their minds till the end of their life.