Friday, August 10, 2012


İ think i lead a positive life but not exactly. İ mean a positive life is necessarry for everybody but there are some barriers which prevent you from living positively. Health, family, peace, a good job, money , friendship are important things to me however you can't have all of them going on well at the same time. For example, some time you can have problems with your family , in another time you can be in trouble with monatery matters.So all these can lead you to have not a positive but a problematic life.Even if i am rich and healty in body , i have some psycholofical problems that prevent from leading me a pure positive life.Losing somebody who is quite important to me influenced me so deeply that i couldnt handle it by myself but with pills. May be it would not be a big matter to some other people but as to me it's very depressing. İ think everybody has some problems which are prominent for their life. Everyone needs to have a positive life but in order to have it , they need to fullfil all biological, pyschological, social needs in a certain amount. But if there is no fullfillment in these needs , we should create a positive thought that is to say we should search good in bad. İt is not a very easy thing to do however if your life hit the bottom then you should know how to pull it to the top. And all this ends up in your brain.if you cant do it, nobody else will do it for you. Your own brain is the only alternative for this massive change. Therefore believing to have a positive life most probably is the starting point of having a real positive life.But of course there are some alternatives which can turn your negative life into a positive one.,some small changes in life can even help you have progress in this process. For example,you can start with concantrating on what you want and ignore what you dont want. İf you want to be a teacher, be a teacher not a lawyer. Namely, a person cant find happiness in what he doesnt want to be. So one should live as to her/ his own interests, not to the others'. You should also keep your mind and body active in order to reach a positive life.if you dont feel comfortable with your own look, you wil lose self respect and confidence which will lead you to think in a negative way. Or when you are mentally busy with something that disturbs you, there is no way for you to have a positive life. These situations which i mentioned above can be barriers for people and for me to live in a positive way. Hence we should keep in mind that we have only one life and there is not another chance for us. Not big changes but only the small ones can even prese t us a better life and terminate the barriers which convict us to live a life that we dont want. 

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